I think that men face a real quandary when it comes to attending a church, let alone becoming an active member. In fact it seems that men are facing a challenge of being men from all sorts of directions in our culture.
An interesting article was written by John J Miller in
Hillsdale College’s Imprimis (http://imprimis.hillsdale.edu/file/archives/pdf/2013_09_Imprimis.pdf)
entitled, “Football and the American Culture.” It is not news that football and
many contact sports are under scrutiny these days because of the threat of
serious injuries. This conflict over violent sports has a history. Miller ends
up taking the line of Theodore Roosevelt that football is a positive social
good that ought to be preserved. There is something culturally good about manly
sports.
I never was good at sports. I have enjoyed watching some
sports including football so I found the above article interesting. I was never
motivated by sports though. I was one of the guys that would be found in the
marching band at the football game. For me music and the theater were the place
my imagination could run. Being able to play the part of hero or villain was
motivation for me. We’ve all been caught up in a movie or musical where the
music builds to the suspenseful tension or victorious climax. History is full
of manly men being public speakers and actors.
Unfortunately the Church appears to have become another
accomplice in the attack on manliness. Missouri-Synod Lutheran pastor Jonathan Fisk
in a recent “Worldview Everlasting” video (http://www.worldvieweverlasting.com/2013/10/18/when-relevancy-fails/)
gives an example of how men are being marginalized in the Church. It seems the
Church has moved to presenting a childish religion that may well be driving
young men out of the Church. Christian faith ought not to be trivialized by
sing song music, mere emotionalism, or silliness in order to cater to children or
others. I fear that many evangelical churches have unwittingly marginalized
manliness in favor of more contemporary acceptable views of human behavior.
What is a man to do?
May I suggest the manliness of reformation theology? The
reformers were no mere book worms or sensitive males looking to get in touch
with their feelings. When Luther defended himself and stood on his conscience
that was bound only to God’s word, he stood against the powers that ruled the
world. Martin Luther was a man’s man. Jesus called his disciples to love God
with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength. Peter was no weakling and Paul
no effeminate (2 Corinthians 22-28). The Church is under attack by its foes; false
religion and humanism. It needs men to be men and for boys to grow up to be
men. We are in a warfare ( 2 Corinthians 10:3-6) that needs men to be strong,
thoughtful, and courageous leaders.